Save the memories of your older relatives

1. Talking to older relatives is a critical early step in genealogical research. Do this as soon as possible. Don’t wait until tomorrow because your relative may suddenly not be there.
2. Prepare a ring binder with your summaries, charts, and photos to show your progress to your relative
3. Discussions should be an equal exchange of information and should not be an interrogation.
4. Establish rapport with family members before interviewing them
5. Avoid questions that seek a “Yes” or “No” answer
6. Let your relative talk, do not interrupt them. Their conversation will make them feel comfortable. Learn to listen.
7. Try to check the information from oral histories – treat information as clues.
8. Re-visit your relative after you have new and exciting information to show them. Seeing your material may turn on their memory for another story.