Celebrate the Holidays with your Ancestors
December 2, 2025 Leave a comment
With the holidays approaching, now is the best time to collect stories about your ancestors, collected from what you hear at family gatherings.
I lived with my grandparents when I was a child. Later in my life, I began my genealogy research to learn more about their lives and preserve their memories. I found many details and read accounts of life in Poland that could describe their childhood. After seeing these stories, I added saving my discoveries for my children and grandchildren to my goals. I decided to write a Family History containing the stories, photos, maps, and documents that would bring my ancestors back to life. I envision my family history as a significantly enhanced scrapbook, focusing on the narratives that explain their lives.
I began my research by gathering family photos, papers, and oral histories, and then expanded to census, naturalization, passenger, and marriage records. These records led me to identify their birthplace and to find additional documents in Poland.
I found accounts that described Polish life in the places where my ancestors lived. I also found vintage photos of the town, the church, and the homes. My research led to previously unknown Polish relatives who shared photos and stories, filling in more details.
As I compiled my family history, these steps started to bring my grandparents and their ancestors back to life. This process did not happen quickly or with one significant revelation. Instead, the vision of my ancestors came together, piece by piece, over many years. Eventually, I felt my ancestors looking over my shoulder as I edited their story.
Learn to ask questions even if the person is no longer available to answer. An example is their immigration story, which is an essential step in honoring our heritage. Envisioning the challenges our immigrant ancestors faced on their journey to America is a critical aspect that raises many questions. Identify the port they left from and the ship’s size. Describe the immigrants listed on the ship’s passenger manifest. How did your ancestors interact with them? How was life on board the ship? What was their destination? How long was the voyage? Link the information in the documents and find the stories.
Try to describe why they left their homes. It was not easy to emigrate. Leaving home was a very emotional decision. Those who left saw emigration as their only chance to escape a bleak life or to solve problems, such as owning land or finding a husband. Not only were they leaving their family and friends, but also their beloved homeland. Some may have been excited about emigrating, but there was also fear of the unknown. Most left home with tears in their eyes.
Try to describe their lives in America. Look through old pictures in family albums and also history books of the local area and neighborhoods. Pictures of their homes, neighborhood, and their church are vital.
Next, identify where they worked because this would have been a significant part of their lives. Finally, look at their overall experience in America. How did they enjoy their new life? Did they do anything outside of work? Identify their neighbors from census records. Did they have a hobby? Were they active in a fraternal group? Did you find pictures of family gatherings? How was their life here better than what they would have had in Poland?
We will not find answers to most of these questions. However, asking the questions and doing the research will give us a sense of what our ancestors may have experienced and help us better understand their character and our Polish Heritage.
Do not minimize the lives of our ancestors. Our immigrant ancestors were heroes, and they are the foundation of our roots in the United States. Do not underestimate their contributions. Their names will not appear in history books, but their efforts impacted American history, and without their sacrifices, our country would not have developed as it did. Their lives were the building blocks of their new country, and their immigration influenced the quality of life in the United States today. Remember that they made many sacrifices for you and helped build the United States.
Be patient. Keep asking questions and looking for records and stories. Then, please write down the stories and organize them into family histories.
Save the stories for your future generations.
Have fun, and enjoy your Heritage.


